I legitimately cannot believe how long it’s been without a post here. I’ve missed this space, but it’s been important for me to live my life privately these past few years.
I went back to school. Because what else was there to do during covid?! I graduated this spring with a degree in interior design. The funny part is, I always knew that’s where I’d end up; I just needed a little detour along the way. (That was literally my answer to what I wanted to be when I grew up for almost 10 years.)
I bought my first house. (And am heading into my third winter of shoveling quite a long driveway…) It has been one of the best decisions of my life–and quickest! I moved in one month after first seeing it online!
I got a puppy. She is the cutest little stinker there ever was. Literally, stinker. Who knew cavaliers like to run away?! But I know she’s meant to be a part of our family. God knew it had to be completely undeniable for me to not back out at the last minute!
All the kids I was lucky enough to love and watch grow up for most of my twenties are now in school. This has been the most bittersweet part of the last few years. So many tears have been shed for each “last” that we’ve shared and it makes me both happy and sad to see the Instagram updates and wonder when they got so TALL! Some of them have now outgrown me and I am not okay!
My faith life and community has blossomed into something I could never have imagined back in 2020. The friends that have come, gone and been there since the beginning. The groups I’ve been a part of. So many events, conferences, retreats, etc. The babies I now get to love on in the nursery. All the ways the Holy Spirit has moved and pushed me to move. My baptism. An upcoming mission trip. I hate that it’s so cliche to say “I’m blessed.” Because I truly truly am.
And now here I am. Trying to figure out what comes next and how everything will come together.
A thought that’s been voiced in my family quite a bit lately is that 40 feels pretty great. So many parts of life are known. I know it’s not this way for everyone, but for both my parents and my brother and sister-in-law, 40 brought a lot of security. They know what they’re doing and where they’re going career-wise. They know who they’ll grow old with (God-willing). They’ve now met all of their children. They’re in their forever house. Loans are disappearing and they’re enjoying more financial freedom to do what they’ve always dreamed of. They’re in a sweet spot.
But I can feel that I am too. As I approach the end of my twenties, I’m starting to get an idea of how things will come together and just make sense. For so long this blog just felt like some insignificant blip in my past. Something I’d wave off if it ever came up in conversation. But why then, is it on my heart again so strongly at this moment in time?
In all honesty, (and if you’ve been here before, you know I’m nothing if not honest) so much of my faith journey right now is centered around finding my voice and becoming more confident in it. Living my life freely without thinking about the eyes peering through the windows (story for another day!).
I know my parents are worried that I’ll never find my way at this point, but I just have this feeling that we’re all going to look back at this time in my life and see how crucial it was and how it led me to exactly where I need to be. Where I’m called to be. All of those things I talked about at the top have without a doubt been the biggest developments of the last 3 years. And I know they all play a role in this moment because I felt a previously unknown peace about them all. Even when the doubts crept in, and they did, I kept pushing through because I knew deep down that what I was stepping into was right.
It’s hard to know what to do in a waiting season. But sometimes that’s the point. Trusting God, being open to His direction and following the peace seems to be reminding me what He placed on my heart and in my life from the beginning.
I’ll be real with you and say that I don’t know if this is going to become a regular thing again. But I promise to follow through if I feel the nudge to share more.